Hi girls, today I want to share with you a little bit of my experiences about love.
I know this is kinda unusual for me to talk about this kind of thing, I am not expert about love and relationship, however I want to give some courages for you who are currently fighting for long distance relatioship.
Well.. Well.. If you are curious with what I am going to talk about, you can continue reading and if you aren't, you can just stop and move to another page lol (￣∇￣)
How many of you guys are currently in a long distance relationship?
This topic has got my interest lately since I do experience it myself.
My boyfriend lives more than 3000 miles away from where I live now. As you know I keep moving from one place to another place for studying and working. He is busy with his life and I am also busy with my life, so we never really have time to meet in person for such a long period. I am sure you know the feeling of unable to see the person you love especially when you need him.
A lot of people said "Long distance is wasting time, impossible, horrible, and blah blah.."
Personally, I think it is not that bad because when you are in love, you will not see (when, what, who, and where?) any hard things which hamper the relationship between you two. You will just fight to make it works.
It is not like love is blind, but you really know the value of that person which makes you think that distance is nothing. I am assuming it like that, so if you have another thought, that is your point of view.
If you are new with your relationship, you may still enjoy the love blossoms. But in another side, for you who have been in the relationship for a while, you may feel something uncomfortable start to pop out one by one, time to time and you finally feel what we say "I am tired of.."
Don't worry that's normal!
Do not blame the distance when something comes out, such as a fight, misunderstanding, jealousy, anger and so on. You should know that all those things would also happen in a relationship although you and your boyfriend are not in long distance relationship, because LDR is still a relationship as well.
What you need to do is try to solve the problems, figure out how to make the relationship getting stronger and of course how to make both of you getting closer in heart.
True love will not put physically contact at first, it is necessary in a relationship but it is not necessity. So if your boyfriend just keeps making excuse about unable to contact with you physically from time to time and makes it as the main problem in your relationship, just kick him out! He doesn't appreciate your heart, he just wants a girl not a lover!
So, be strong girl! Everything will be alright at the end. Believe in your love, you don't need to be confused about your relationship or feel different because you can't feel the normal relationship like others. You and your love are the ones who know what exactly happens between you two and realize the fact that you two have the same goal, being together in the end ♡